Male dateing crip girl question?

Ok I'm not 100% an I know I should just ask her but let's say I think this girl is a crip or deffinetly affiliated with them. Let's say I'm not, and we want to chill and be friends. Is that allowed? Can female gang members date non gang members? And if she's not and her family is what happens then? Please no BS or pitty posts telling me why I should not. I want real answears from real people who know how this goes down. Will I hav to fight her homies to hang with her?